Here’s the scoop, ya’ll: Choosing a Ragdoll kitten is a whole vibe, but you’re probably wondering, “Should I get a boy or a girl Ragdoll cat?” It’s a valid question. Honestly, both are super adorable, but they do have differences. So, let’s break down the charming distinctions between male and female Ragdolls so you can pick your new bestie.
The Boys: Total Chillers–Seriously.
Okay, let’s talk about the boys.
If you’re looking for a cat that’s basically a walking, purring teddy bear, a male Ragdoll is where it’s at. They’re the definition of “go with the flow.” Think of them as the golden retrievers of the cat world—super friendly, down for anything, and always happy to just hang.
Male Ragdolls are typically bigger than the girls, so if you’re into that whole “giant cloud of a cat” aesthetic, a boy cat will deliver. Now, some boys are just too big to find comfort in a lap. Masterpiece Ragolls makes 20-pound male ragdoll cats, so their “charm” might slide off the lap and onto the couch next to you.
As kittens, male ragdolls love to be held and will literally melt into your arms. They’re known for being incredibly affectionate and a bit more goofy and playful than the girls. They’ll follow you around the house like a shadow, and they’re always ready for a flop so you can see their massive, fluffy bellies. As they pack on the muscle pounds, it might be hard to scoop them up comfortably.
Now, a quick pro tip: if the fella is not “fixed” (altered, de-sexed, neutered), he’s not gonna be super fluffy, and he might spray your house to mark his territory. But once fixed, boys are all about the good vibes and cuddles. Heads up: here at Masterpiece, we “fix” the boys before you adopt them!
The Girls: Queens with a Quiet Confidence
Now for the girls.
Female Ragdolls often exude grace and confidence. They are absolute queens! They’re often slightly smaller and more petite than the boys. At Masterpiece, we breed our Ragdolls for size, so often our female Ragdolls can range anywhere from 13-17 pounds. Occasionally, they can top out at 13 pounds. Just like the floppy brothers, they boast rabbit-soft gorgeous coats, begging for the brush!
While the female ragdoll is just as loving, their affection can be a bit more selective. Sometimes, they’re not as “in your face” with their love; it’s more like they’ll choose to bless you with their presence and affection on their own terms, which is still frequent. On the regular, our queens tend to charm their way into the hubby’s lap over the family mama. We like to say that the female ragdoll cat is less needy, but not to be overlooked, yeah?
Female Ragdolls are known for being a bit more independent and observant. They’re not the type to get all up in your face constantly. Instead, they’ll often be found perched on a cat tree, watching the world go by. They’re a bit more graceful and elegant, like the sophisticated older sister who’s got her life together. They still love a good cuddle, but it might just be on their terms, and when they do, it’s definitely a special moment.
Basically, female ragdolls are the main characters, and you’re just living in their world.
Are female ragdolls shy?
In my humble opinion, I think female cats are evolutionarily wired to be protective of themselves and their kittens. It’s all about the “mama bear” energy. Gertrude is an example of the rule. But there are also exceptions: Eudora gives all the BFF energy, disregarding the idea that boys are floppier than girl ragdolls.
Another exception is Minnie – she’s not shy at all. She’s a clever girl who is an “only cat” in a busy household!
Just like with the boys, spaying your female Ragdoll is a must. It prevents health issues and any potential “marking” behaviors that might be a problem later. That’s why we spay female kittens before “adoption gotcha day.”
The Verdict: It’s All About the Vibe
At the end of the day, both male and female Ragdolls are an absolute slay. The “charming differences” are subtle, and a lot of it comes down to individual personality. A neutered male is a big, lovable goofball. A spayed female is a sweet, graceful queen. Seriously–you can’t go wrong either way. You could also just get both!
The real key is to spend time sharing what matters most with your breeder. They’re the ones who know the lineage and the temperament because they’ve spent time helping the queens raise the fluffy, floppy kittens. A loving breeder will obsess over the kitten’s energy to match the right ragdoll floof to your home life & energy.
So, are you looking for a constant cuddle buddy or a more independent companion? Once you figure out your vibe, we will help you find the perfect Ragdoll to join your family.
Boy Or Girl Ragdoll Cat
Can you really tell the difference?
